This four-week course was a trailblazer for the Golda Meir Mt. Carmel
International Training Center (MCTC). Offered in response to the
mounting research evidence concerning the paramount importance of the
first years of life in the later development of the child, it examined
the perceived need to involve parents in the early years of their
children's education and aimed at developing strategies for this among
early childhood educators.
It recognized the importance of meetings between parents and
professionals caring for their child, and the need to create an
effective and constructive basis for communication between all three
groups - professionals, parents and children. At the same time, the
international composition of the group members also provided the
opportunity to explore similarities and differences in child rearing
practices in different cultures throughout the world.
The world, in this case, was amply represented, with 26 participants
from 19 countries as far afield as India, Lithuania, Tanzania and
China. All the course participants hold positions of responsibility in
some aspect of the life of the baby and pre-school child. Some work
directly in the field as principals of schools or kindergartens.
Several participants are psychologists working in universities as
lecturers and researchers, a few are pediatricians, some hold
administrative positions in their country's Ministry of Education, or
of Child Welfare and so on.
The challenge lay in planning a course that would benefit such a wide
range of individuals; the bonus was the wide variety of countries and
child-linked professions which were represented, and which ensured a
rich repository of knowledge and experience about child rearing
practices in many different cultures. At the same time, the
participants had a thirst for knowledge and a keen desire to learn from
the specialists who gave lectures and workshops, from the study visits
that they made and from the books and articles at their disposal in the
MCTC library.
Almost before the course had begun, the participants were paired off
with partners from the other side of the globe and asked to draw up
charts showing what their cultures had in common as regards caring for
young children and what differences they found. In every case, whether
it was India contrasted with Poland, Nigeria with the Philippines, or
Vietnam with Cyprus, the similarities considerably outweighed the
differences. Exploring the differences in parental involvement and
attitudes - the points of disagreement about child rearing practices or
burning issues in early emotional development - formed the starting
point of the course - two days of lectures and discussions on this
topic with Dr. David Oppenheim, an Israeli developmental psychologist
from Haifa University. Not only did he supply his listeners with a
clear overview of the latest research worldwide, but he also used
Jewish culture, with its accumulated burden of persecution and loss, as
an example of how child-rearing practices in any culture are influenced
by the collective memory and experiences of a people.
One burning issue, which seemed to transcend geography and culture, was
provision of child care services for the very young, and this issue was
discussed in depth. It was regarded as an offshoot of the attachment
relationship which is formed between the mother (or another significant
carer) and the baby.
Dr. Sarah Rumney, an anthropologist and educator in charge of teacher
training at the WIZO College of Art in Haifa, spoke to the group about
theoretical aspects of family structure and relationships; Michal
Finkelstein, a social worker concerned with families in cultural
transition, stressed the special needs of parents in such situations.
Many sessions centered on how to involve parents in the early education
of their children and, as a concomitant of this, much time and emphasis
was placed on achieving effective communication between the parties.
The participants learned about and practiced the Parent Effectiveness
Training system developed in America in 1970 by Dr. Thomas Gordon, a
system which aimed at providing better understanding of the
parent-child relationship. For many of the participants this in itself
proved to be a learning process.
Theory turned to practice when the group spent an afternoon in a
kindergarten in the town of Bat Yam, near Tel Aviv. Here they were able
to observe an activity which involved parents and their children and
demonstrated the excellent communication between the kindergarten
teacher and the parents of the children in her care.
Another morning was spent touring a kibbutz (collective agricultural
village) near Haifa. The tour included several of the kibbutz
institutions, including a baby house and a kindergarten where the
participants were able to look around and interact with the children
and staff.
As a group, the course participants did their own bonding and formed a
cohesive social unit within MCTC. Several of the trainees, representing
a cross-section of countries, educational backgrounds and work
experience, agreed to be interviewed about their professional life and
about the time they spent at MCTC.
Anh Tuyet, from Vietnam, trained as a teacher at the Pedagogic
University of Hanoi and then for three years in Moscow. As supervisor
of the Department of Early Childhood Education at the Ministry of
Education, she has responsibility for 11 million children of pre-school
age, only 2,700,000 of whom have creche or kindergarten places! Her aim
is twofold: to set up ways of reaching parents of young children, using
a Home Visitor network in remote areas, and to change the present style
of Early Childhood Education in her region to something less structured
and formal.
Carmen Alviar, from Manila in the Philippines, is involved in training
programs for Early Childhood educators and particularly pre-school
programs for children from disadvantaged families. With a first degree
in Elementary Education, a second in Theology and Religious Education
of young children, and a doctorate in Educational Management, this
course, in the Holy Land, addressed a number of issues dear to her! On
the concept of parental involvement she says that the way "to reach the
heart of the parents is through the child," and she realizes that to make
successful programs for low-income families she must involve the parents.
Jovita Petrulyte from Lithuania and Chan Yan Hui from China represented
Eastern and Western pediatric medicine. Jovita's training and research
programs are concerned with early intervention for development-
disabled children. Learning effective methods of communicating with
parents and helping them to share their feelings proved most helpful
for her. Chan Yan Hui has a combined degree in pediatrics and clinical
psychology. Among her responsibilities is teaching Parents' Groups
comprised of those still pregnant up to parents of three-year-old
children. Until now the tendency has been to lecture the parents in
large group meetings, but the MCTC course has opened other
possibilities to her, such as group work and role play, to help the
parents communicate with one another.
Eva Keresztes, from Budapest in Hungary, approached the course from a
quite different angle from those participants more directly involved in
education. With an academic background in economics, international
relations and law, she is employed by the Hungarian Ministry of Health
and Welfare as Project Manager for a World Bank sponsored project to
create a national tobacco and alcohol policy for Hungary, and publicize
the link with cardio-vascular disease. Her team includes two physicians
and a dietician and is currently preparing health education programs
for primary school children and heart-healthy food labeling for the
shops. Studying the ways in which parents can be helped to cooperate
with teachers has given Eva some ideas about how to implement the
health education programs that she plans. Her project aims to reach
children between the ages of 6 and 13 before they use tobacco or
alcohol, and to involve parents rather than teachers to advise other
parents.
Giva Roselyn Dete began her professional life as SRN, midwife and
psychiatric nurse in Zimbabwe. During an 11-year stay in the UK she
gained two degrees, including an MA in Health Service Administration.
Today she serves as acting under-secretary for Child Welfare at the
Ministry of Health of Zimbabwe. Another participant from Zimbabwe,
Angela Mutizira, is an ECE trainer at the Ministry of Education, so
Giva has been able to get to know that side of the picture too. Giva's
participation in the MCTC course has helped her see that her ministry
needs a policy on Parental Involvement. Everything she heard on the
topic of "attachment" has strengthened her belief that Zimbabwe women
need a longer, or differently proportioned, maternity leave than the 45
days before birth/45 days after birth that are currently granted. Giva
returns home with a project, formulated at MCTC, to implement workplace
creches, especially in government buildings, hospitals, schools and
industry, where there are many women workers.
Antounnetta Katsioloudi grew up in a Marronite village in northern
Cyprus, the eldest of 12. After finishing teacher training college in
Nicosia, she gained a scholarship to study Early Childhood Education
for a BA degree at Newcastle University in the north of England. She
took her second degree in Curriculum Development in the USA. Today she
is in charge of curriculum development and in-service training for
pre-school teachers at the Pedagogic Institute of Cyprus. The concept
of parental involvement has not yet been implemented in Cyprus and
Antounnetta was happy to see the implementation of the theories in the
work done to involve parents of pre-schoolers in Israel. As a final
project, she and her Cypriot colleague, Andreani Eracleus, a
kindergarten teacher and supervisor at the Ministry of Education, are
proposing that the Ministry of Education in Cyprus focuses on parental
involvement, adapting its attitudes and expectations accordingly.
Another participant from the Mediterranean Basin was Alev Onder, an
educational psychologist from Istanbul, Turkey, and one of the handful
of men among the course participants. His university has a UNICEF-
supported program, a multi-purpose center for early childhood
education. Alev lectures to parents and was happy to gain experience in
small-group work while participating in the MCTC course, where he felt
that psychology held a central place. His final project centered around
teacher-training for parental involvement, where he aims to give
teachers the necessary communication skills to talk to the parents of
the children in their care.
Twenty-six participants tackled the final projects with the same
enthusiastic yet pragmatic approach as those few recounted above. Each
one has, we hope, returned to her or his workplace ready and willing to
work on developing parental involvement in Early Childhood Education in
the way that most benefits the local milieu.